Validation Seeking

Validation Seeking

Why do some people chase validation from everyone?

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52 mins

Explore how validation seeking develops from low self-esteem and childhood experiences. Discover how fear of judgment and rejection drives constant need for approval. Learn about the role of social media and people-pleasing in perpetuating this cycle.

Ep 1:

Chasing Approval: The Validation Trap

Vionna Flynn unpacks why we crave likes, compliments, and constant reassurance—tracing validation-seeking back to low self-esteem and the childhood roots of needing approval to feel worthy.

Ep 2:

The Price of Fitting In

From over-accommodation to suppressed authenticity, this episode explores how people-pleasing and fear of rejection quietly erode self-identity, leaving many unsure of who they really are.

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Discussions (11)

Hugh

Level 6 · 7 mo ago

Refreshing my notifs while she explains why I shouldn’t is actual shenanigans lol I feel personally attacked 💀

Enoch

Level 5 · 7 mo ago

I see this in my physics classes. Students want the grade for validation, not the actual understanding.

Anton

Level 10 · 7 mo ago

It stems from insecurity.

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